Hi again
You know, I have never read anything that Calvin wrote/said and I wouldn’t bother spending years studying anything that a man said. So, I am unfamiliar with his philosophy.
I think we need to always go to the Bible first and to be constantly examining the scriptures for our answers. The verses I gave, are a good starting point to understanding who God is. As he says ‘there is none righteous, no not one’.
I actually did read that book from Dave Hunt about 20 years ago. I had been listening to Dave Hunt at the time, and he said so many great things that I agreed with. I can’t remember everything that was in the book, but I do remember thinking as I was reading it that it was absent of Bible verses - he seemed to only have quoted a few and I felt he was judging God in this book and he was very sarcastic. So, he used alot of his own words, and almost no Bible verses. I thought at the time that there was something not quite right with him and it was literally the first time I had ever thought that about Dave Hunt. It really surprised me at the time actually.
I listened to the entire first talk from Phil Stringer that you recommended. For the 40 minutes that he spoke in the entire first video, he didn’t even quote one Bible verse and I think this is a worry. How can you have an argument about the Bible not quoting any verses at all? It was almost exactly what Dave Hunt had done in his book. I have listened to only 20 minutes of the second talk and again - there are no Bible verses. He only uses the words ‘to whomsoever will’ that Jesus used, but has still not quoted verses. And Yes, Jesus does save everyone who comes to the genuine Jesus of the Bible and is willing to trade what they used to think of him - to what he says about himself. But it is God who heals their blindness.
Phil Stringer started talking about how Calvinists believe that God has made them perfect and that they never sin. If that was true then this would be a cult religion, but I don’t remember ever hearing that Calvinists believe they are without sin. So, although I never studied Calvinists or what they believe at all - what he is saying doesn’t sound right to me. He also is saying how every Calvinist he has ever met has been arrogant. But there are no Bible quotes still and he seems to be judging by outward appearance. How can we have a talk about what the Bible says with no Bible quotes?
So, again, I think that every man/woman stands alone when they meet God. We need to study what he has written to be able to expose counterfeits. We are told in Ephesians 6 that the Word of God is the Sword of the Spirit. His Word is our defence. We are in a battle and the stakes are the highest, so the best thing anyone could ever do is to get to know what God says and if we have any questions about what he is saying keep cross-referencing verses until it becomes very clear. We need to let scripture interpret scripture.
So, no, I am not a Calvinist. I believe all of the verses that I sent you though, and we can’t throw any of them out the window just because we don’t like them.
With your husband, the Bible is very clear. It tells everyone to ‘come out from amongst them’ when we are in a false church. Since he has not done this yet, he is counted as being one of them.
Matthew 25 is a terrifying story of how there are two groups of people that think they are Christians and God tells one group to depart from him because ‘I never knew you’ (or what he’s really saying is ‘you never knew me’). So, the more we find out about God and Jesus from his own definitions and his own words, the better position we will be in when we meet him face to face.
You did mention one thing that I don’t agree with ‘once saved, always saved’. Have a look at these verses and see what you think. These seem to be warnings from God.
All the best - Marianne
[Philipeans 2:12-13 KJV] 12 Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. 13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of [his] good pleasure.
[Ezekiel 18:26-29 KJV] 26 When a righteous [man] turneth away from his righteousness, and committeth iniquity, and dieth in them; for his iniquity that he hath done shall he die. 27 Again, when the wicked [man] turneth away from his wickedness that he hath committed, and doeth that which is lawful and right, he shall save his soul alive. 28 Because he considereth, and turneth away from all his transgressions that he hath committed, he shall surely live, he shall not die. 29 Yet saith the house of Israel, The way of the Lord is not equal. O house of Israel, are not my ways equal? are not your ways unequal?
[Revelation 3:11-12 KJV] 11 Behold, I come quickly: hold that fast which thou hast, that no man take thy crown. 12 Him that overcometh will I make a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go no more out: and I will write upon him the name of my God, and the name of the city of my God, [which is] new Jerusalem, which cometh down out of heaven from my God: and [I will write upon him] my new name.
[2Peter 3:17-18 KJV] 17 Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know [these things] before, beware lest ye also, being led away with the error of the wicked, fall from your own stedfastness. 18 But grow in grace, and [in] the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him [be] glory both now and for ever. Amen.
[Ephesians 2:8-10 KJV] 8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: [it is] the gift of God: 9 Not of works, lest any man should boast. 10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.
[Ezekiel 33:3-6 KJV] 3 If when he seeth the sword come upon the land, he blow the trumpet, and warn the people; 4 Then whosoever heareth the sound of the trumpet, and taketh not warning; if the sword come, and take him away, his blood shall be upon his own head. 5 He heard the sound of the trumpet, and took not warning; his blood shall be upon him. But he that taketh warning shall deliver his soul. 6 But if the watchman see the sword come, and blow not the trumpet, and the people be not warned; if the sword come, and take [any] person from among them, he is taken away in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at the watchman’s hand.